Who are you leaving yourself unaligned for?

Hey, bitch. There is some *huge* shit coming up. The vibes are crazy right now. There are all these shifts, massive shifts, big energy changes all coming our way. And we need to embrace the chaos, embrace those fucking “holy shiiiiiiit” moments. Because all of this is fundamentally delicious. I can promise you that much.

We’re in Mercury Retrograde right now but bitch, we are not here to let cosmic energy and whatever is going on within the elements rule or dictate how we actually feel. There is a shift happening though and a lot of the energy I’m seeing is around claiming. Claiming the parts of ourselves that for whatever reason, we have been disowning and rejecting and denying. We’re reaching inside ourselves to grab them and claim them and you know what happens then? We glow the fuck uuuuppp.

When we claim these hidden parts of ourselves, they let us claim all of our desires, our magic, our money and every other delicious part of life. And I want you to ask yourself a question. If you truly, honestly, tuned into yourself now – where are you at in terms of your authentic expression? How much of who you are, is who you really are?

Be honest with yourself, write this down somewhere, keep it in your mind. Hold it. Know it. Own it. Own your truth, biatch.

And now ask yourself, what does the rest of you look like? If your answer was that you are 60% authentically you, then who is that other 40%? What does she look like, and why aren’t you channeling her? This part you’re not vibing with – what the fuck are you so afraid of? And bitch, you know I mean that in the nicest possible way…

If you allowed yourself full permission to be 100% authentically you, how would your life change? Are you afraid you might realise you’re unhappy in your career, your relationship or your friendships? Because that is a-okay! Are you scared of freedom and losing friends and being judged, being too much, being the delicious fucking goddess you really are?

I get it. Oh I get it. I’ve been there, done that, got the t-shirt and swapped it out for something much more glamorous and delicious. Baby, don’t deny yourself full authenticity just so you can still be who everyone else thinks you are. It doesn’t work, and you only hurt yourself by holding back the rest of YOU. Who are you being your old self for? Who are you leaving yourself unaligned for? Even if they bring you community and safety and a comfort zone, it isn’t fucking enough.

I know this is triggering. I love you. Embrace who you are, stop pleasing everybody else. Be honest with yourself. Find your authenticity, let go of what (or who…) is holding you back. Show up as YOU. The people who love you unconditionally will love you even more. This is your permission.

Make that shift. Embrace that energy. Do it, bitch.

PS… the cart closes for SIYLW 3.0 *this Sunday* – but the first module is out now! The girls are so fucking excited, and there’s still time for you to join us before our first call. What are you waiting for?