Recently I’ve noticed a common theme amongst my clients – it’s wild how much this link keeps coming up – surrounding money, love, and men. The link is in the collective but individually, we need to do the work.
Money, love, and men are intrinsically linked.
First of all, let’s discuss how our ability to love and receive love is positioned by our relationship with our father. You know that, baby, you don’t need me to tell you. But you – we – do need to think about money differently, and how receiving money and wealth stems from receiving love. From how we receive love.
A pattern desperately needs to be established, where you are able to accept love. Accept money. Accept wealth.
Think about your relationship with your father and the person he was. Did he work hard, or not? Was he a provider, or not? You can internalise this in two different ways. If he *was* a provider in a monetary sense and didn’t satisfy your desire for love, but was bringing in money this might have made money feel unsatisfying to you. Or, it might have led you to perceive money as being more important than love – leading to you feeling detached from love and thinking that if you could bring in money yourself, your father might love you more.
This is getting deep, I know. Stick with me. The flip side of this, with your father being the monetary prodiver, might have led you to see money as a blocker of love. This is more likely to lead to you rejecting money AND love.
But if your father was *not* a provider in the monetary sense of the word, he wasn’t bringing money into the family to take care of your needs, then you might have created a trauma response of being hyper-independent, and very career focused. It gives you the mindset of as long as I’m safe in money, then love doesn’t matter. As long as you have money, then everything else *can* be unsatisfactory, right? Wrong!
You need to be satisfied in love – with love – to be satisfied in money.
And babe, I’m not saying you need to have love to have money. I’m not saying you need to give away your power. I’m not saying your ability to create wealth is in your ability to be loved by your dad. Not at all. But thinking about this is a good starting point when it comes to witnessing your own relationship with money.
The desire, the craving of love that you felt was missing or was simply linked to hard work and money – you need to alchemise this, and come into a space of deeper unconditional love. This way, the love from the men in your life will be able to magnetise what is available for you!
Put it this way: there’s a link you need to recognise between how unsatisfied you are in love and how much you are utilising money to fill that void. Ultimately, receiving money and harnessing wealth is linked to receiving love. So give yourself more love, more of that unconditional liminality which allows you to conduct the wealth and energy you desire. In the words of Jose Luis Borges: plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
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