Boy oh boy have I been reflecting a LOT lately. There’s been a massive quantum leap taking place in my life recently – which inevitably led to what I’m calling a milestone hangover…
I hit these goals and my money went up and I achieved so much and then… I felt exhausted, and I had fears, doubts and anxieties. I spoke to my own coaches and sat with this information, with these feelings, and was able to recognise it for what it is. There has been huge growth and I’m on the other side of that; it’s fascinating but totally normal – there are bound to be huge feelings!
If this is something you’ve experienced, please know you’re not alone biatch. And you’re totally normal… in that respect anyway! Something else I’ve been thinking of is the idea of success in itself – what we link it to, the things we desire to in order to consider ourselves successful. Is is a monthly figure you’re manifesting, hitting a certain weight loss goal, getting into a relationship?
Bring that thing you’re coveting for success to the forefront of your mind for a minute. Think about it. And ask your subconscious this:
What do you believe I have to sacrifice in order for this picture of success to come true?
What comes through? What’s it telling you? Your subconscious is correlating this version of success, with the sacrifice of whatever it is that has come to mind. The sacrifice of love, of joy, of time, of family… whatever it was, this is dictating that you’re not safe to have success because you haven’t sacrificed this.
OR, perhaps you’ve already experienced a high level of success in whatever it is you desired. What were you sacrificing at that time to make it happen – think back babe, because you might not even realise you were sacrificing it at the time…
A breakthrough for me was realising my subconscious had always made me think that success comes at a cost – that something needs to be sacrificed. But let me tell you right. damn. now. It ain’t true!!!!
Being able to recognise what you’re looking for to be successful, where the energy is or needs to be, the situation you’re in, the experience you’re having… this is so important. Rewriting it as safe and something that can happen without sacrifice – well, babe, this is even more important.
You can have success and be safe in that. You can make the money. You can hit the goal. You can find the man (or woman). You can travel the world. You can get that job. You can reach those milestones, every single one of them. You can. You’re safe to achieve anything.
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